9 Months

Why, hello, Mr. Tater Tot!

Spent today trying to do as much living as possible to honor those lost. It was good. #10yrslater

Tomorrow you will be nine months old. Yes, I said tomorrow. So why am I writing this today? Well, mister, tomorrow is my birthday and I’m turning twenty-nine and I’m having a bit of a weird panic attack about it, so I’m gonna need to focus on that. And wine. Lots of wine.

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Back to you, my lovely little boy. This month we began to see glimpses of the terror that will surely be our future. You’re moving, like really, really, moving, and I’m not sure what the heck to do. You went from scooting to crawling to standing to climbing on to stuff to opening kitchen drawers and smashing your fingers in just a few short weeks. And can I tell you what the most annoying part about all that is? I have to vacuum ALL THE TIME. Between the dog hair and the teeny, tiny crap that Lucy has amassed all over the house, it’s basically a death trap. So most evenings you will find me with the broom and the vacuum, with a crazy glint in my eye, as I try to make the house baby safe. You’re still alive, so I guess I’m succeeding so far.

Tate is less than enthused about this soccer game in the cold rain business...

We moved you to a new daycare this month, the same one your sister attended for years prior to elementary school. They decided to open an infant room and as you were on the waiting list for a toddler spot when you were older, they called us to give us a first shot. You should have seen me when I got that call, Tater, I was so happy. This place is where Lucy made her best friends, learned so much, had amazing teachers…when I drop you off here, I can imagine your future. I see you running around the playground and strutting around in the Halloween parade and meeting Santa for the first time. Being a working parent means you really take the “it takes a village to raise a child” mentality to heart, and I have so much trust in these wonderful people that are taking care of you every day. Within a week, the cold that had been plaguing you for weeks cleared up, you were napping again, and you were happy at the end of the day. It is glorious.

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This month was also the first time I was really tested as a parent with a sick kid. What started out as a small cold turned into a full blown flu, with vomit and diarrhea and fevers and lots and lots of tears. Yours. Mine. Lucy’s. It was horrible. Holding your sick, sad body while you moaned in pain, knowing there was really nothing I could do, and hearing your sister throwing up in the next room. And then as she started to get healthy, the bug got me too. Your dad was away for work, and I have never felt so alone. Usually I am the experienced mom in the crowd, with people coming to me for advice. But those few days were the first since Lu was a babe that I was truly frightened and worried I was doing it all wrong.

Mama's helper, snuggling with her little brother...

Luckily, we all slowly recovered and Daddy came home. I got to sleep and snuggle with you more than I have since maternity leave ended months ago. And ever since, you’ve been more likely to snuggle up for a nap or just some cuddle time…which, you know, I’m okay with.

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I love you, Tater. Please don’t grow up too fast. If you don’t want to walk for a few months, I’m totally cool with that.

Love,
Mama

7 & 8 Months

Dear Tate,

This weekend you turned eight months old, and way back in July, you turned seven months old. Are you amazed by my mathematical prowess, son? You should be. Random sidenote: You should ask your dad sometime about that time when he saw my LSAT pre-test scores in the math section and then made fun of me for the next ten years. (In my defense, I wasn’t that dumb, I was on a full college scholarship at the time…although that scholarship was in journalism…) Well, I didn’t write you in July as I was on my Digital Sabbatical, but I promise, it was a good month. You have changed exponentially in the past weeks, I’m not even sure where to start.

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In July you ended up spending most of your days either inside or at the pool, as your little body certainly could not handle temperatures that were over 105 degrees daily. You went from tolerating the water to totally loving it, splashing like a maniac whenever you were anywhere near a pool or a sink or a bathtub. We had to stop giving you baths in the kitchen sink, as your splashing was getting so out of control you were close to shorting out some appliances (toaster, baby food maker, microwave), and now we have to take baths in the big tub, you, me and Lulu. Let me tell you, kiddo, you wholeheartedly approve of this development. You would splash in that bath all day. You shriek and laugh and throw your body in to the water with such force, it’s hard for me to hold on.

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I guess that’s another thing that has changed in the past months, your strength. You have turned into a bit of a rock, little man. You’re not rolley poley like your sister was as a baby, but you’re not a little guy either. You’re just totally solid. Yesterday we were at the lake with your grandparents and Grandma leaned over to pick you up and exclaimed, “Wow, you are a lot heavier than you look!” You’re strong, too. You’ve gone from rolling all over the place, to rocking on your knees, to full out crawling all over the place. If someone holds your hands above your head, you immediately stand up and try to walk, which, let’s be honest, I’m not so fond of. Can’t you just stay a baby for a bit longer, before you’re running around, stealing your sister’s Polly Pockets and trying to eat them?

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Your personality is changing a bit too, although I’m not sure how much is actual “change” and how much is you just being able to express yourself a bit better these days. You’ve always been a talker, but now you are officially a yeller. You screech and scream and groan and moan and laugh and giggle and sigh…I will even put it on record that I think that you maybe (possibly) said “mama” the other day. Now when you want something you crawl right up and tug on pants legs or slap me in the foot. When I ask if you want “up please” you will stretch your arms up to me and smile. You’re also a total cuddler, snuggling your face into the crook of my neck and wrapping your arms around me when I hold you. Your sister used to do that too, and I forgot how amazing it feels.

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After a blissful summer at home with our nanny, you are officially back at daycare, although just to trip you up, you’ll be moving to a different facility in two weeks. We like to keep you on your toes, little man. And while I miss you being at home, I know that you’ll do fine in daycare, just as you always have. It helps that you are so charming and not to much of a trouble maker (yet), all the ladies who work there think you’re quite the dashing little dude. When I brought you in on the first day, none of them could believe how different you were in just a few short months since they’d seen you last. “He has hair!” they exclaimed. “His eyes are so pretty! He’s crawling!” One of the older ladies smiled at me and said, “He’s still our little Tater Tot, though. Such a sweetheart.”

Yup, ditto to that.

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Love you, little man,
Mama

Digital Sabbatical Recap

Remember when I said goodbye to the Internet for the month of July? Well, if you’re here, you definitely do, because no one else is still reading after that break. So thank you, reader, for sticking with me through the month of radio silence and the ensuing barrage of pictures of my kids/lamenting of their growing up/comparing life with a yoga class (seriously, who the eff am I?!)/et cetera. You rule.

Just like last year, I made some resolutions of things I would do while I refrained from hitting refresh on my browser. And, similar to last year, I even did some of them. (Emphasis on “some.”)

Read three books: Right before the Digital Sabbatical I got myself a Nook Color, as I can’t afford an iPad and I spend many hours a week locked inside a supply closet at work pumping (sorry, that’s life bitches) and I was tired of lugging books back and forth. And yes, I know that a “digital sabbatical” should probably include staying away from electronic reading devices, but my sabbatical, my rules. And holy hell, did I read. Not just three books, not four, not five, but ELEVEN. Yes, eleven. Apparently I spend way too much time on the internet, because eleven is a lot of books. My faves?

Spoiled by Heather Cocks and Jessica Morgan
A Place of Yes by Bethenny Frankel
The Hunger Games Trilogy by Suzanne Collins
Matched by Ally Condie
Wiches of East End by Melissa De La Cruz (recommended by Miss Lane)

Welcome a new baby to my extended (friend) family: Miss Lena Mae Frey-Pettibone was born on July 13 and she is so beautiful I can hardly stand it! I need a trip to NYC so I can snuggle her in person…

Take Lucy and Tate to the fair: Um, 30 days of 100+ degree heat means no fair for us…womp, womp.

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Try and get a family photo at said fair (hahahahaha! ha.): No fair meant no fair photos, but we did get some taken at the farm instead! And they are quite lovely, if I do say so myself. Many thanks to sis-in-law-to-be, Erin, for snapping these.

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Go blueberry picking: Yeah, we slept in because it was raining on the day we were to do this, so we missed it. But Nicole and her family still went, and it looked to be super fun!

Celebrate a birthday or two: Miss Mara turned 28 and I made her a homemade Penny Can (for context, see here). I am an awesome friend. Also, Mr. Sawyer Nash had an early birthday party in July (because he deserves it, that first year is tough!) and was formally dedicated at church. He is such a cutie. I heart him!

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(No babies caught on fire during this celebration)

Spend a weekend at the lake: Done!

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Go shopping for first day of school supplies (KINDERGARTEN!!!!!!!): Done! Technically this was after the sabbatical though…

Captain my Bowl for Kids Sake team without making a total ass out of myself: Half done…I did captain the team (excuse me, SUPER TEAM as we raised more than double our original goal!!!), but I bowled awful. I was second to last, and the only person who did worse than me had carpal tunnel. True story.

Big Brothers Big Sisters Team!

Learn to make the perfect margarita: You guys…I did it! Well, Melissa from my supper club did it, but then I copied her. It’s one bottle of premade (with alcohol) margarita mix, one part sparking water (flavored if you’d like) and a bunch of fresh limes. Do it. Now. I don’t care if it’s 9 a.m. It’s 5 o’clock somewhere, right?

Smooch on my kids and my husband and my life: Yeah, you know it.

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Late Night With Lulu

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Today Was a Good, Good Day

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Goodbye Summer

Last week was officially the last week of “summer” around here. Tate started back at daycare yesterday, and Lulu starts kindergarten (!!!) tomorrow, plus our 30+ days of intense 100 degree heat finally broke, so for all practical purposes, the summer has come to a close. Sure, we’ll still hang at the pool a few more times and will have a BBQ or two, but the kids’ endless days in the sun are over until next May/June. So, as we didn’t have any childcare last week (the nanny had to go back to college, but school didn’t start until this week), I decided to take some time off and just hang out in KC. Originally we had grand plans for some sort of vacation, but Trent couldn’t really take off after his trip to Ireland (did I not mention that?) and I was not too excited about travelling with the little people by myself.

So instead we enjoyed a nice little “stay-cation” with trips to the museum, the science store, the library and the park. We ran through the Crown Center fountains and ate ice cream twice in one day (and once for dinner!). We went to the pool, attended school carnivals, rode ponies and made a video using our new underwater video camera:

I’m so glad we decided to just hang out and spend some time together. It’s so fleeting, you know? Happy summer, y’all!

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Elle's Birthday Water Slide!

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