Disney World Part 2 – The Magical Kingdom

Yes, I know it’s called the Magic Kingdom. Thank you, spellcheck police. But for us, it was just plain magical. Our trip to the Magic Kingdom (as previously mentioned) landed on Lucy’s 5th birthday, and I was a little afraid she would be overwhelmed with all the magic that was in store for her. This is a kid who cries when she’s happy, so I was prepared for a lot of tears. She rode over to the parks in a separate car from us, as she had some awesome little second (third?) cousins who were coming too and she couldn’t get close enough to them, so I have no idea what her reaction was as they drove in to the park (sad face here). I can tell you, however, that this was my face as we rode on the first of many rides of the day, the tram from the parking lot to the monorail:

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{Holy f’ing craaaaaappppp!!!!!}

It was about 9:30 a.m. and already 90 degrees outside, so we were a bit afraid for what was in store. We got in our first line of the day to get on the monorail, the train that goes around all the parks and would take us to the Magic Kingdom. At this point, I finally got to sit with Lu, and she was super excited, but nervous. I think this picture says it all:

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When we arrived at the entrance of the park, the first thing we did was go to Customer Service and get a birthday badge. They have these badges for free for all sorts of occasions (birthdays, anniversaries, first trips to the park, etc.) and a nice man with a sharpie will personalize it for you. Again, this is free. Did I mention that this is free? Because it’s probably the only thing in the park that is. Lucy wore her badge during the day, and every “cast member” (they don’t call them employees at Disney) that we encountered made sure to wish her a happy fifth birthday. She was floored. And it was an awesome little extra that lots of people don’t know about.

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We also, of course, stopped to get some ears and an autograph book. Lucy picked the cheesiest, pinkest, sparkliest ears she could find…which was not what I wanted her to get (come on, a classic photo with the black Mickey ears would’ve been so neat), but it was her birthday, so I let her pick. The autograph book was a recommendation from other moms that said it was a must have. She carried it with her during the day and all the characters we met signed it. It has a space for pictures too, so we can make it into a photo keepsake if I ever get all these photos printed (hahahahahaaaa!).

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We then headed down Main Street, following the masses to Cinderella’s Castle, which is in the middle of the park. On the way Lucy saw a guy with a huge thing of balloons and begged for one. Her dad, who is usually the voice of reason in these situations, pulled out his wallet right away and bought her a giant pink one. While it made for some cute pictures, it was a total pain to carry around all day, whacking me the face as it was tied to our stroller. I’d recommend getting one on the way out of the park instead. And prepping your kid by making sure they understand they can’t bring it home with them on the airplane. Because that melt down was no fun at all.

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We had planned ahead that we would probably spend most of our time in Fantasyland, which is directly behind the castle. Most of the little kid-centered rides are there, and even though we would have loved to explore more of the park, we only had one day and wanted to make it as enjoyable for Lu as possible. As luck would have it, we ended up right at the base of the castle just as a parade came down Main Street. They rope off the streets for the parades (which happen several times per day) so we were roped into the circle at the end of the street, with only a couple other families. This was our first stroke of luck, as all the other park patrons were crowded against each other on Main Street, and we were literally just hanging out in front of the castle, where no one could get in. The parade came up the street and then circled us for about 20 minutes, performing an entire show with characters and dancers. At one point they asked if anyone was having a birthday, and invited us to come out and dance in the parade with them. Seriously. It was a dream for Lu. She has told everyone and anyone that Disney World had a special parade just for her birthday. She even got air kisses from Minnie Mouse. Such a wonderful way to start the day!

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After the parade, we headed up to Fantasyland and did all the rides we could without waiting in line for hours. We hit up all the classics, It’s a Small World (Lucy’s favorite, by far), the flying Dumbo’s, Peter Pan’s Adventure and a 4-D Fantasia-like movie. Literally, that took all day. The long lines plus the need to be constantly stopping for water and to cool down ended up eating most of our time. But that was okay. Lulu had a great time, and I made a promise to myself that I wouldn’t stress about those kinds of things, and I didn’t, which made a huge difference in the happiness of everyone.

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But let me tell you, it was HOT in Florida. Poor Grandpa Lee and Trent were pretty overwhelmed with all the PRINCESS and PINK and LOUD and HOT of it all…so when they started complaining we made them get in the stocks until they calmed down. Then we let them dork it out in the Hall of Presidents. It was air conditioned and historical, so I think they enjoyed it. That may have been the only thing they enjoyed, but they hid their scorn well. We love you guys!

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At this point (around 4 or 5 p.m.), we met back up with Trent’s cousins. Though we had all come to the park together, we decided early on to split up, as it’s way too hard to coordinate that many people in a place like Disney World. And since they have six kids…well, that wasn’t going to be easy. So around this time we met up with them at Frontierland, where Lucy rode her second favorite ride, Aladdin’s Magic Carpet (I was nursing Tater in the Disney Baby Center at the time, so there are no photos). Trent and his cousin then took the kids to the Swiss Family Robinson Treehouse, which was such a hit, they had to do it twice. Lucy fell in love with her cousin Greta and they spent the rest of the day together. Greta, who is the oldest of six, became a favorite of Tate’s as well.

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At this point, we were all close to “MAJOR ENGINE SHUTDOWN” as Lucy was falling asleep standing up, the boys were hungry and tired and poor Tate was a ball of sweaty, teething unhappiness. Tate spent the entire day in his stroller or in the Disney Baby Center nursing, but he was a sweetheart the whole time. We bought a stupidly expensive Mickey Mouse fan to hook on to his stroller and a bottle with a fan that squirted water (the perfect weapon in a water fight), but it was still very, very hot. Tate was a trooper though, not surprising, as he is the best baby ever in the history of the world.

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Soon after, we asked if Greta would like to join us for our fancy birthday dinner at the castle, and she decided to stay at the park with us while the rest of her family went home. I’m going to save the tale of our fantastic dinner for another post, as this is already way too long and if you’re still reading you deserve a medal. Or some Mickey ears…pink ones.

Next up – The most amazing birthday dinner a five year old could ask for….

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A Note For the Dad

Thank you for being the father of my kids. Thank you for being a good man, someone they can look up to. Thank you for being there, even when you’d much rather sit on the couch and watch Top Gear with a case of beer instead of going to a cartoon drive in movie. Thank you for embracing all things glitter and pink, even though that’s pretty much everything you are not.

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Thank you for being a sturdy set of shoulders for them to sit on when they can’t see. Thank you for sharing what you love with them. Thank you for loving me every day, right in their presence, so they know what it means to be a good partner. Thank you for fixing things that have been broken with gorilla glue or nails or just some well placed words.

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Thank you for working so hard, every day and night, to give them a good life. Thank you for the genetics you’ve passed on, including her fiery personality and his long eyelashes. Thank you for giving me some damn fine looking kids.

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Trampoline!

Thank you for worrying about them, for being the “bad guy” when that’s what they need to hear. Thank you for yelling at her when she runs out into the street, even if I don’t always act like I agree. Thank you for being his favorite voice. Thank you for sending me pictures of what you’re doing together when I can’t be there. Thank you for always wanting the best for them.

Red Friday for Chiefs Playoff Game

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Typical Morning

Thank you for being such a good dad. For being their dad. We love you one hundred.

Disney World Part 1 – How the Hell Did We Get Here?!

About a year ago Lulu started asking us when we’d be going to Disney World. A few of her little preschool friends had gone over the summer, and she was so excited about going herself. Breaking the news to her that we just couldn’t afford a trip to Disney was too much for me to handle, so I broke out the tried and true parenting method we’ve all used one time or another. I lied.

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I told her that Disney World actually had rules about who could visit and one of those rules was that the oldest kid in your family had to be seven. I know, right? But it was the only thing that came to mind that could explain why her friends V, C and A got to go and she didn’t. They all had older siblings, so that’s the first thing that came into my dumb brain. She believed me, as mommy never lies because lying is wrong (dear God), and seemed to move on, hoping that when she was older, she’d get to go. Me? I had no idea what I was going to do when she was seven, but I had dodged a bullet. For now at least.

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Fast forward a few months and we have a new baby / crazy new life. I had just met, hired and scheduled a nanny for the summer and had recently returned to work from maternity leave. We had been refusing Easter trips and other long weekend vacations since I had used all of my vacation time during my maternity leave. I didn’t feel comfortable taking any time off for a while, especially since my work had been so awesome about my time with Tate. So when we got an email from Trent’s uncle telling us he was planning on renting a block of rooms at his Orlando timeshare so he could take his son and grandkids to Disney World, and did we want to come along, I immediately said no way, Jose. Free hotel rooms at Disney? Awesome, yes. But I just couldn’t take the time off. Also, the nanny we had just hired was going to have to take some time off for her sister’s wedding, so I was already going to have to take vacation for those days, and I just felt I couldn’t do both. So we politely told him “thanks, but no thanks” and didn’t mention it to Lu.

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Two weeks later, our lovely nanny-to-be emailed me and apologetically informed me she had the dates wrong for her sister’s wedding. The days she would need off would actually be the same days that we had been offered the Disney trip. The stars began to align. I called Trent’s mom (who was planning on coming along for the trip if we did go) to discuss it further. We realized that the trip would fall on the weekend of Lucy’s 5th birthday and my mind started to race with possibilities. My amazing mother-in-law decided that she and her husband wanted to buy the tickets to the parks for Lucy’s birthday and they had a bunch of airline miles we could use for plane tickets.

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How could we say no?

We couldn’t.

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Then began the plan to tell Lucy, who had been asking what we were doing for her birthday for months. We decided to have her write a letter to Mickey Mouse, asking if he would mind making an exception to the “seven year old” rule for her, since she had done such a good job at quitting sucking her thumb and being an awesome big sister. Then we waited. Every day she’d check the mailbox, hoping for a response.

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Two weeks before her birthday, we packed up a stuffed Mickey Mouse doll, a personalized DVD Disney had sent us and a letter from Mr. Mouse, himself. She found it on our front porch and totally lost her mind. It was one of my top five parenting moments, for sure (you can watch the video and see photos here). Less than 14 days later, we were on a plane headed to Florida for the best birthday a five year old could ask for. We are so, so lucky.

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{Next up, our day at the Magic Kingdom…}

A Note on Memory Keeping

Oh me, oh my, where do I start? I’ve been putting off writing about our trip to Disney for many reasons, the most important of which is that so much happened, and I just don’t have the time to get it all down. But, as I told Trent on the way home from the airport, my purposes in writing this blog (or Twitter even) has changed so much in the past few years. Whereas this used to be a place for me to spew whatever nagging thoughts were swirling around in my brain, now I look at it as sort of a time capsule. I remember Gwen Bell saying once (on Twitter or her blog or the like) that she wished her mother had some sort of online journal or Twitter account. Her mom, who died when she was quite young, is somewhat of a mystery to her, and she wondered what her Twitter would say, what she would share with the world, and wishes she could peek into her private thoughts. Every time (well, almost) I write something here or anywhere online, I think of that. Of how someday my children will read this, and whether I’m still on this Earth or not, they will gain some insight into who I am as person, not just their mother. They can read my perspective, learn about things I was interested in, understand me so much better. Sure, there are things I don’t want them to know that they will probably learn here and elsewhere, but it’s all part of my truth, the person I am. And them seeing that I am a mere mortal, a person who makes mistakes and learns and grows is more important to me than sheltering them from said mistakes.

What I’m trying to get at, is although I have no time, and honestly, not much desire to chronicle our trip to Disney here, I know I have to. Lucy’s experience of this trip will be remembered through five year old eyes and ears, it will be muffled and selective. I want her to be able to read this in five or ten or twenty years and learn what she said the first time she saw the castle over the horizon or how she grinned while sitting on her dad’s shoulders or what she said as she met Cinderella for the first time. I want her to see her beautiful self through my eyes. So even though it may take forever to get it all down, and regardless of who will read it today, I need to write this story. For her. For Tate. So they can remember.

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Five Years Old

Dearest Lulu,

Last Friday you turned five years old. I know this is a little late, as I’ve been writing yearly letters on your birthday RIGHT ON TIME for the last few years, but I think you can forgive me since we were at Disney World and I really didn’t want to step away from Ariel to find a good WiFi access spot.

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You’ve been talking about turning five for months and months, it seems so strange that it’s finally here. I no longer have a four year old in my house, but instead a very grown up five year old. A five year old that can count to 100 and draw pictures where I can actually recognize the subjects and tell me what 6 + 3 equals and spell her name and her friends names and her parents names. A five year old who tells jokes and riddles and plays “I Spy” and fills any lull in conversation with a hilariously stated “AWKWARD!” even when it’s not appropriate. A five year old that has graduated from preschool and danced in front of hundreds of people and knows the most ticklish spot on her little brother’s tummy.

Winter Wonderland 2010

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In the last year, Lulu, you have not only grown physically, losing baby fat and stretching out, slowly transforming into a tall, lanky little girl, but emotionally. You feel empathy and love like no one I’ve ever known. You cry when you are happy, laughing while you assure those around you that they are “happy tears.” Your heart is so big, you are always the first to lend a hand to a hurt friend or a fussy baby, and you don’t even blink when I tell you we have to sort through some of your beloved toys to donate to charity. You are constantly worried about others and wanting to help whoever you can. I’d like to think that comes from me, but truly, I know that is all you, little girl. I don’t know where it comes from, but I’m so proud of how love manifests itself through you.

A Little Bit Excited

SNOW!!!

This year one of your greatest dreams finally came true. You became a big sister. You’ve been begging for a sibling for years now, and watching you with Tate has been a joy. No one loves that baby more than you, and the feeling is definitely mutual. The way your faces light up when you see each other is the entire reason people choose to have kids. I am so excited to watch your relationship blossom and grow as you do, to watch you support and love each other through the years.

Big Sister!!!

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Lucy, I love you more than the sun. Every year on your birthday, I think of who I was before June 3, 2006 and who I have become. Because of you, I am a mother. Because of you, we are a family. Because of you, no matter how rainy the day, there is always joy.

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I love you, Lulu Bird. And thank you. From all of us.

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Love,
Mama

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