Shiny Happy People

Two very important things occurred this past weekend. First, my lovely Mara graduated from college. Seriously, isn’t she the prettiest girl ever?!

5/17/09

Mara is one of my best friends in the entire universe, and though she loves to annoy the poo out of me (her nickname for me is Old Balls Black Bear…I have no idea what it means either, but she thinks it’s hilarious), I couldn’t live without her. She already knows how incredibly proud I am of her accomplishments, but I like embarassing her, and nothing makes Mara more unhappy then seeing photos of herself.

Mara + Abbie (sort of)

Us with the Graduate!

This happy event was a long time coming, and was totally worth it. Congrats, The Mara! I’m so happy you have made it this far and have joined me as a fellow Jayhawk alumna. Every time I hear you scream Rock Chalk or curse out UNC, it makes me smile knowing that I get to share my love of KU with you. And it’s also nice to know I’ll never be the most extreme or psychotic fan in the room, as long as you’re there with me. You did good, Mars, really good.

Now go get a job, woman!

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The other big event this past weekend was the bachelorette party for Miss Mikayla. For those of you who have been living under a rock for the past four years, Mikayla is the fiance of Heath, who is Trent’s business partner. We all used to live a few blocks away from each other in the West Plaza area of Kansas City, and when I was huge and pregnant and generally pissed off, Mikayla would bring me cookies and watch American Idol with me. Though we always claim to be completely different (I think we have about four things in common, total) one thing we share is our extreme dork factors. I went to Space Camp, her favorite movie is Newsies. I read books about vampires, she would like us to act out the Thriller dance, in full zombie garb, for her wedding reception. The list goes on.

But she has become a great friend in the past few years, starting with her willingness to listen to my pregnant grumblings, to becoming my daughter’s godmother, to sharing bitch sessions on whatever new scheme our boys have come up with for their business. She’s good person, a great friend, and is going to be a gorgeous bride.

5/16/09

Best Friends (4EVA!)

The Girls!

You can view all of the pictures from this weekend here. If you need me, I’ll be taking a week-long nap to recover from all this excitement.

I Won’t Disappear, In This City*

For Mother’s Day, Trent and I decided to abandon our original plans of going to the giant, suburban movie theater out by our house and head downtown to the newly renovated AMC Mainstreet Theater. When we upgraded our original tickets (to Star Trek, squeeee!) from the regular theater to the high tech Cinema Suites, and we were definitely not disappointed. Recliners, a waitress at our disposal, chocolate covered raisins, wine and chairs that vibrate with the noise during the high action scenes, it was probably my favorite movie watching experience to date. Unfortunately, due to our ticket change, we had two hours to kill between dinner and the start of our movie. We were both totally wiped from a long weekend, so we spent part of that time, ahem, sleeping in our car. Like crazy people. We sure do know how to have fun on a night out.

But the other part of the night was spent enjoying our city and wondering why we moved to the suburbs in the first place. We don’t miss the crime, lack of space and bad schools, but we sure do miss the pulse and activity you find in the urban part of Kansas City. Knowing us, we may even move back someday when we have infinite income and less small children. Until then though, we decided to make a real effort to enjoy what our city has to offer, even though we’re living out in suburbia now.

A few things we try to do on a weekly or monthly basis:

Attend First Friday’s in the Crossroads District – All the art galleries open for free viewing and most serve drinks and appetizers as well. There are street performers, slushie machines on street corners and amazing pieces of art. The bands playing in the streets are pretty nice as well. (First Friday of Every Month, Crossroads Art District, next one is on June 5)

City Market – The biggest farmers’ market in town with amazing food, fresh and local. Also a great place to find plants for your garden or random handmade knick knacks you can’t live without. (Saturday and Sunday mornings, Downtown Rivermarket)

And here are some activites we really want to try this year. Some are repeats of years past, but we kept them on this list because they are definitely things we want to try again:

Royals Game (family outing) – The recently renovated Royals stadium is ah-may-zing! More family friendly, more technology and the local fans couldn’t be more excited. Now the Royals just need to learn how not to suck!

T-Bones Game (to get drunk) – Trent added the “to get drunk” part. The T-Bones are a local baseball team that plays out in Johnson County. Their games are cheaper, and more laid back then the Royals, plus, the T-Bones are actually a pretty good team in their league.

Nelson Atkins Family Day – We used to live right next to the Nelson Atkins Art Museum, and, of course, as people tend to do when they live so close to cool landmarks, we hardly ever went there. We want to plan a fun day with Lulu to spend entirely at the museum. Maybe on a hot July day when we all need a break from the sun.

Johnson County Community College Art Museum – My company designed this facility, and I’ve still never spent much time there. May be a quick and cheaper option then the Nelson Atkins and it’s right down the street from our house.

Berry Picking / Shatto Milk Farm / Dianna Rose Farmstead – We’ve actually been to Dianna Rose a few times, but I’d love to spend a whole day and have Trent come with us. The berry picking place was sent to me by Nicole, who’s moving here this summer, and it sounds like a great time. Shatto Milk is a great local company, and I try to buy their milk as often as possible (it comes in glass bottles, so fun!). I would love to take a tour and help milk a cow or two! And Lu would just like some of their pink (strawberry) milk.

Chiefs Game Post Renovation – The renovation of the stadium is almost complete, and hopefully as nice as what they did for the Royals. We may have lost our coach and our most likeable player, but that doesn’t mean I don’t want to be screaming “CHHEEEIIIFFFSS!” from the new seats come Fall.

NCAA / Negro League Museums – The Negro League Museum was the lovechild of our hometown hero Buck O’Neill, one of the great negro league baseball players who gave so much back to KC before his death two years ago. The NCAA Museum was built along with the Sprint Center last year, and I’ve toured it once (right before it opened), but would love to see it completely finished.

Amtrack Trip – Maybe just a short train ride up north, or even to St. Louis if we’re getting ballsy.

Cinema Suites at Mainstreet Theater – We put this on the list just so we could cross something off. This renovated tech-heavy facility is so much fun, I think everyone should try it once (preferably with a very loud action movie so you can feel the seats vibrating).

Plaza Lighting / Carriage Ride – Trent and I lived on the Plaza for over five years, and still never saw the famous lighting of Christmas lights on Thanksgiving Eve. The only time we were ever in town for the event, I was working and Trent was with his family. Bummer. We’re going to stay close to home this holiday season, and hopefully we can make it down and get our carriage ride as well.

KC Jazz – I have never seen real jazz in KC. Please don’t shoot me. I know, I’m awful. But I’m making the resolution to fix this atrocity. This year, baby, I swear.

Downtown Stay-Cation – Since we’ll never get a chance to go on a honeymoon (I’ve officially given up hope), we’d love to do some sort of stay-cation in KC this year. Maybe stay at the President’s Hotel, go to dinner at the Sky Restaurant, hang out downtown….

Concerts – We are officially making an effort to see more shows in KC. Not sure where we’re going to start….but it’s happening, damnit.

Sports at Sprint Center – I’ve been to a few concerts at the Sprint Center, but never to a sports event. Someday we’ll get a hockey team here (fingers crossed), but until then, a NCAA sports tournament will do.

NASCAR Race – This is Trent’s idea. He wants to wear fake mullets and drink Pabst. I suppose I can do that. Anything for marriage, you know?

Greatwolf Lodge – This is an indoor waterpark / hotel out in the suburbs that my sister takes her kids to on a regular basis in the wintertime. Once Lu can keep her head above water, I think this would be a great weekend treat in the middle of a bleak, grey winter.

New Tattoo – Really doesn’t have anything to do with Kansas City, but both Trent and I are jonesing for new tats. I have a full idea drawn out for mine, now I just need money, time and a good artist recommendation. Anyone?

Hot Air Balloon Ride – This actually replaced another idea, skydiving, because Trent thought the original idea was too dangerous. Whatever, floating through the sky will work just as well. I hope someone packs parachutes though.

Do you all have any fun activities you do that are unique to your city? If you’re in KC, do you have any other recommendations for me?

*Song lyric from Iglu & Hartly, In This City

Motherlover

Today I was going to write a cheesy diatribe on the joys of motherhood, how it’s a happiness I never knew existed or how my daughter makes my world so much brighter than it ever was without her. I was going to talk about how this is my third Mother’s Day on the receiving end of this relationship, and how it’s only gotten more fun with time. How even when Lulu acts so insane I’m not sure how I’ll make it through the rest of the day, I still know I’d rather be with her than with anyone else.

But then I realized that motherhood does not necessarily equal maturity. So I’m posting this instead:

Happy Mother’s Day to all you mama’s out there! Your job is infinitely hard, terminally unrecognized and neverending. But it sure is awesome, isn’t it?

4/30/09

#myfavoritepeople

I miss my friends. But when they’re all on Twitter, I feel like we’re all sitting on the couch on Moro Street in Manhattan, Kansas, watching bad soap operas and drinking wine coolers, instead of spread out across the country, leading completely separate lives.

For those of you who think Twitter is a social media platform that’s making people lose “real” relationships, I give you the following Twitter conversations between my best friends, the ladies I feared would drift away due to space and distance. Instead, they are just a tweet away.

Example #1 – Theresa never could spell. Still can’t. And Mara never has a clue what Theresa is talking about. I’ve known Theresa since I was 8-years-old, so I’m usually called upon to translate.

Theresa (@BrooklynTF): Oj box quote “amazing straight from the orange taste” um what isn’t that what ok is?
Mara (@maralynntho): I have no idea what your last tweet is saying…
Megan (@crazybananas): I think she meant OJ when she wrote ok….
Theresa: Mara, I think this funny, thxs, Meg
Mara: Meg, thank you for clarifying Theresa’s post
Theresa: I think Mara should know ‘Theresa’ the offical language of me

Example #2 – Mara has an unhealthy fascination with vampires. And Theresa’s weird.

Mara: Is going to satisfy my vampire addiction with some moonlight
Theresa: ‘vampire addiction’ should be the name of a delish cookie
Mara: A cookie named that sounds like it should have blood in it and that’s just gross!

Example #3 – Mara is Type A, and feels the need to spellcheck IM’s and other forms of messaging. It’s annoying.

Megan: Just started to feel a swollen through and stuffy sinuses. I knew Lu’s sickness was gonna get me. Damnit.
Mara: I assume through means throat?
Megan: Oh goody, I’m sick as a dog and Mara is playing Twitter spellcheck police again. Amusing, as always.
Mara: It’s only because I love you and thank you for making me love vampires like a 13 year old, sarcasm intended
Megan: Oh go eat your vampire cookies and leave me alone;P (Yes, that emoticon is winking AND spitting at you. So what?)

Example #4 – Though Abbie weighs about 90 pounds, she’s always down for a fight when a friend is wronged.

Abbie (@abbienyoung): I’m going to muster up strength from 15 years of playing soccer to kick my friends now ex boyfriend’s balls in to outer space!
Mara: Is going to join Abbie with the ball kicking

Example #5 – Abbie loves bad jokes.

Megan: I’m in a monsoon!
Abbie: Maybe Alabama isn’t that bad – 85 and sunny here. Wait – today I met a lady with two sons named Chevy and Ford. Nevermind.

Example #5 – Missing the old days, soap operas and midgets. Then Theresa goes all PC on us.

Mara: I totally miss Passions
Megan: I tried to explain to Theresa about the midget on that show, and she kept correcting me and calling him a little person.
Mara: That silly Theresa, Timmy was definitely a midget
Theresa: I have been informed but small person is perfered maybe not in this case

Example #6 – When Mara drunk-twitters, she leaves nice messages for her friends. This is very rare.

Mara: Meg, you are pretty, just thought I would share that with you. Abbs, I miss your face and really wish you would move back to reasonable driving range

Oh Twitter, thank you for giving me back my couch time with these ladies, even if there are emoticons involved.

🙂

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Emoticon

Last week Lucy took class pictures at her little preschool. I have no idea how those turned out, although I can’t imagine the photographers were very sucessful at getting ten 2-year-olds to stand still and smile in front of a waterfall (yes waterfall…Lucy’s school is weird). I expected them to be awful (a waterfall can only do so much) so that morning before we left the house, I made her pose in her cute little dress so I’d remember the one time when her outfit actually matched. She started to get annoyed with my camera, so I pulled a Tyra and told her to “work it” and “be fierce.”

Which led to the following….I give you, Emotions by Lucy.

Silly
Silly.

Angry
Angry.

Sad
Sad.

Pissed Off
Totally Pissed Off.

Surprise
Surprised.

Thinking
And my personal favorite, Thinking.

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